No.
This is very contrary to standard cosmology.
No.
General relativity tells us that spacetime is more strongly
curved close to a black hole, but not contracted.
Indeed, general relativity tells us that clocks in stronger gravitational potentials appear to tick more slowly relative to clocks in weaker gravitational potentials.
This is not consistent with general relativity; an outside observer would see the clock in the strong gravitational potential as ticking slow compared to their own clock, in a weaker gravitational potential. However, the local observer in the strong gravitational potential will observe time to move at normal speed. Hence, they will certainly notice spaghettification, as long as they are able to. It is from the point of view of the distant observer, who does see the close in clock tick slowly, that spaghettification will appear in slow motion.
That's your privilege, but would it not make sense to actually know what those logical steps are, before you decide yu don't like them?
This is a totally irrelevant point. In fact, this kind of thinking invalidates most, if not all of science. We can't literally go to M31, but we can see it, and we can make inferences about it, based on what we see. That is the real point of all science. it is all about making inference about what we observe. Cosmology works the same way. We can see the universe in amazing detail, and we can make inferences based on what we see.
Actually, no. Observation reveals the expansion history of the universe. Assuming that the redshifts are generated by the expansion of the universe, observation reveals a unique (in other words,
one and only one) expansion history, with uncertainty limited primarily by observational uncertainty, not theoretical uncertainty (i.e,
Shafieloo, 2007;
Brustein & Levy, 2006;
Linder, 2003).
Specifically, why not? If I run a movie backwards, and then forwards again, does it not look the same the 2nd (or 3rd or 4th or ...) time forward as it did the first time? Just as there is one & only one movie, so there is one and only one universe (that we can see). Why should the universe be any different? We can see the history of the universe laid out before us in redshift space, just as we can watch the movie from beginning (almost) to the end. So we should be logically just as able to require backwards & forwards for the universe to work much the same as for the movie.
I don't get it. You think that scientists should not adopt any theory at all, until they have exhausted all possible theories? I don't know what you are trying to say. But I do know that all cosmological theories need to be consistent with observation, and consistent with the laws of physics as we know them (or testable extensions thereof). That certainly is true for big bang cosmology, so what's the problem?