
Originally Posted by
Nereid
Do you now understand at least there is a bit of confusion in your question, or that there is some inconsistency?
If you "use[] only the constancy of light-speed as the basis for [distance] definition", you are using Special Relativity.
Special Relativity is a 'limit' of General Relativity, a limit where mass/energy can be ignored.
The definitions of distance, described in the various webpages you can get to following the links, come from using 'distance' in General Relativity.
As several folk here have indicated, once you accept relativity, everything else posted here follows.
But perhaps this just means that your real question is something like 'why do scientists (astronomers, physicists, etc) think Einstein's theory of (special, general, or both) relativity is right'?
BTW, in one sense of 'observable', we can 'see' back to a much higher 'z' (redshift) than the cosmic microwave background; we can 'see' up to a z of ~10^10 (approx 10 billion! the CMB is 'only' ~1000), by analysing the abundance of the light nuclides hydrogen, deuterium, 3He, 4He, and 7Li. If we are ever able to 'see' the sea of relict neutrinos, then the observable universe will be even bigger (nucleosynthesis ended around 3 minutes (co-moving time); neutrinos decoupled at around 1 second). Finally, details of the CMB angular power spectrum, and its polarisation, allow us to 'see' back in time even further ...