I do. Proper etiquette in this situation is to use the gender by which they identify. This is why the main characters in The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert should be referred to as "she" while actually in drag--and Bernadette for the whole movie, as she's the transsexual.
Originally Posted by farmerjumperdon
"Now everyone was giving her that kind of look UFOlogists get when they suddenly say, 'Hey, if you shade your eyes you can see it is just a flock of geese after all.'"
"You can't erase icing."
"I can't believe it doesn't work! I found it on the internet, man!"