
Originally Posted by
GOURDHEAD
Your description of your belief system appears to tag you as an agnostic, not an atheist. Whether one is an atheist, agnostic, or a deist of some sort, she should hold her beliefs sufficiently confidently to not be at all hurt by others calling her an idiot. It is the caller not the callee that should feel hurt, embarrassed actually, as soon as she realizes what that action implies about her. Many atheists seem militantly opposed to believers; these I would tag as anti-theists as opposed to atheists and in need of a support system to sort out their emotions.
if someone you love calls you an idiot, it hurts whether or not you "hold your beliefs sufficiently," or at least, that's been my experience. and, in fact, I've had both atheists and theists insult my personal beliefs, and, yes, how much it hurt depended on how much respect I'd previously had for the person. in fact, I still haven't told my mother about my change in religion (now going on ten years old), because I'm wary of how she'll react.
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