Jerry, what the heck is that first sentence supposed to mean? Do you have a problem with wave-particle duality? For the life of me I don't see what your problem with the existence of neutrinos is. They exist. They are procduced in radioactive decay. They are copiously produced in nuclear reactors. They are produced in fusion reactions such as the sun's. Experiments
detect them just as they do electrons, neutrons, protons, etc. It's not easy, they don't interact much with matter, but experiments such as
AMANDA,
SNO, and
SuperKamiokande to name a few are essentially neutrino observatories. Experiments like them observed the neutrino flux from SN1987A. Experiments like them detect the neutrino flux from the sun.
Recent experiments detected neutrinos produced by radioactive decays in the earth's rocks. And yet you in your wisdom decide that they are mere models. Sorry, your objections are weak and they pale in the face of experimental evidence.
Rant over. I now let this thread get back to BB cosmology.