You arrive at your interpretation by trying to bend what is written to meet what you have pre-detrmined to be "true". That's backwards. It's a natural assumption that simultaneous events are simultaneous for everyone. In that paper Einstein was showing this to be an incorrect assumption. You, however, wish to hold to that assumption, so come up with your own (almost) unique interpretation.
Since your interpretation is at stark odds with current science (which has existed for quite a while) you certainly are trying to "disprove" something.
I'd point out that Einstein didn't vanish after writing this paper. He was active in academic circle for a while longer. If the interpretation of his work was so wrong, he had plenty of time to correct it!
No. You still have not explained how events in a single location can occur at different times for different observers. That is not something that is "only relative". You may as well look at a bat hitting a ball, and say that one observer might see the bat miss!
Not at all. Things do happen in the Universe, that those things happen is no "(super) frame". When a beam of light hits an object, that's something that either occured or it didn't, to say it occured, when it did, is not placing any special meaning on any frame.
I don't really see what you are getting at here, or why you bring it up.
I would however note that the relativity of simultaenity does preserve cause and effect. If the lightening flashes make a tree catch fire, no observer will see the tree catch fire before the lightening strikes it.
Not at all. Distance and time are "bendy" in relativity, but a location is a location. You may see the lamp post 0 metres away from you, it may be 100 metres away from me. You may think the time is 4 o'clock, I may think the time is 5 o'clock. You may think the distance between it and the next lamp post is 50 metres, I may think it is 40 metres. But a single location is a single location. We can both see that lamp post. Whatever we call it's location, it has a location. And any events that occur at that location can only be seen the same way by both of us.
If I see the bat hit the ball, you will see the bat hit the ball.
(You could argue that from some frames, the ball hit the bat, not the bat hit the ball, but you'd agree they hit.)
Yeah, I just don't see how you can twist it that way. The two flashes of light either hit the single object at the same time, or different times. No observer can disagree with that.
What you describe is basically the reason the two flashes can be simultaneous for one observer but not the other, but certainly doesn't "explain" why you think the two observers can disagree about what happened for one of them.
But you are not making "everything" work out, and your interpretation raises more contradictions and requires much more twisting of words to achieve. All to preserve the "truth" that you assume and wish to hold - an absolute defintion of simultaneous.
(Besides, I'd argue that "easy, simple and logical" is not necessarily the best judge of accuracy. Some things are "rocket science".)
What observers see is due to the reality of what occurs.
The light from A and B travel to the observer in the centre of the train. Those flashes of light reflect, including to the direction of the embankment observer. Those photons then travel to the eyes of that embankment observer. That allows him or her to be able to actually measure when the beams of light hit that train observer. It's about actual physical photons. Those same beams of light, with their same leading edge of photons are what went to that train observers eyes. Those actual photons either hit that central observer at the same time, or they didn't. Both the train observer and embankment observer must agree. It's about actual real photons, it's not simply an illusion.
Here you are again assuming ("stipulating") the outcome you want, and then trying to describe the situation to achieve that. It's not what Einstein did. He looked at the situation, figured out what would actually occur, and came to a startling conclusion.



) will never accept what I am saying but you are giving me lots of examples of points that need to be dealt with in the draft.
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Not to mention I've lost count how many times I've been referring to the scorchmarks !
. So have you read Section 4 of "On the electrodynamics of moving bodies"?

You're using one of your pet definitions of Frame of Reference again, aren't you?
I have it all wrong!