From :
http://www.bartleby.com/173/9.html
Note: it's not just about the perception of the train, from the embankment. Just simply, is it also simultaneous there? No!
Note: setting up a situation where the events do happen to be simultaneous with respect to the train. To try to argue this means simultaneous in all frames, in some absolute sense, misses the entire point of the paper.
Note: that train observer sees the lights at different times, so he must consider the flashes non-simultaneous. It's
not just about the embankment observers observation of the train observer! That observer at M'
is seeing the flashes at different times, and will conclude they were not simultaneous.
Note: "Observers who take the railway train as their reference-body" means the person on the train. This extends to observers in different frames (i.e. moving with respect to each other).
Note: how much clearer can this be? Frames in relative motion get their own reality for deciding whether events are simultaneous.
Note: there's no preferred reference frame. That train is just as valid as the embankment. So the train observer
might see flashes (different ones than those before, of course) at the same time and consider them simultaneous. If so, then the embankment observer
can't see those flashes at the same time, and
won't consider them simultaneous.
Note: again, how could this be clearer? "
Every reference-body (co-ordinate system) has its own particular time".