Oh, Henrik. I am so very sorry to hear this news. Most awful for you.
I always wonder why bad things have to happen to good people. It's so sad.
Ridiculous thing for me to say, but try and be strong.
For yourself. For Anne and her son. For Anne's mother / family. You are all family.
warmest regards dear friend
and a Very Happy Birthday too, Henrik!
May you have millions more!